Flirting is fun,it's playful.A lot of people do it for amusement.Every girl should have a flirting ability (single girls only).Unfortunately,flirting in our part of the world is frowned at.You do it and they term you as loose.However,flirting may go wrong if it's not done the right way lol.Read the eight flirting mistakes every girl must avoid and tell me if you agree with them.
Culled from Naijapose.
1. Don’t play hard-to-get:Playing games or playing hard-to-get don’t work in this part of the world. Our ladies still don’t get it. It may work here and there, but guys with any level of self-
respect will quit chasing a girl who plays games. If you are interested in a guy, show him you are interested or he will move on. Shikena
2. Don’t touch too much:
Touch less. Don’t be too clingy. Guys don’t usually like women who are too clingy. You can hold a guys arm or rub his hair but don’t let it be too often or too
prolonged. It could irritate or annoy him.
3. Don’t talk too much:
Let your mouth do less talking and let your eyes do more of them. This doesn’t mean that your eyes should be gazing or that you look confrontational. You should simply
master the art of body language and let your eyes do a bit more communication. This keeps him guessing.
4. Don’t Be Monosyllabic:
Talking less doesn’t mean you should get monosyllabic. Some ladies are bad at communicating either on or off social networks. The conversation style is usually the
same. How are you? Fine. How is school? Fine. What are you up to? Nothing. You look beautiful. Thanks. Can we go out on saturday? ok. Come on. This is so boring. Even
if you are a natural phlegmatic, you should initiate conversation and try to sustain them.
5. Mind the effing words:
You want to be mindful of what you say and how you say them. Although your intention is to flirt with the guy, coming out with strong words may let him think of you
suspiciously. Making a lot of sexual jokes might make him feel that you might be just after sex, except of course the reason you are flirting is to have sex.
6. Don’t dress to kill:
I have seen Nigerian chics who are almost naked in their quest to dress to kill. The flipside of this is that while the guy may keep his eyes on you for a while. He
probably wouldn’t feel comfortable walking beside you because of what people might think of him (you already look like a prostitute). You can adorn yourself with those
hot, sexy outfits, however cover up a bit. It keeps them guessing.
7. Don’t be a hermit:
Avoid staying alone with him all the time. While you may want to spend a large portion of your private time with. Suggest public places where you can do naughty things
such as whispering in his ears and still feel safe.
8. Mrs. Nice girl:
I am not suggesting that you shouldn’t be nice to a gentleman, however, don’t overdo it. Be yourself even if you like the guy too much. Being too nice may make him feel that you are pretending. Don’t be disrespectful.