Tuesday, 10 September 2013

How to get over a guy

These tips might be helpful to someone out there who is trying to get over an ex,a boy or a crush.Read these simple but useful tips and you can thank me later lol.

1)Think about what you deserve and don't ever settle for less
2)Don't block him on Facebook,twitter,Skype ,or any social media for that matter.Let him be able to see how happy you are and strong enough to get through without him
3)You will find one special guy later in life.Some women think that because a guy they like doesn't want them,they will forever be alone.Honey,move on!

4)Everyone has faults,find his and dwell on them.This will make you realise he's not as good as you thought he was
5)The more time you spend around friends and families,the easier and faster it is to replace that sadness with happiness
6)Be open to other guys.That is the easiest way to get over someone
7)Even if he hurts,be the bigger person and still be nice.If he says hello,say hello back in a nice way.It doesn't mean you want to be his friend,it's simple courtesy
8)Be gracious and don't take rejection personally.Learn from it
9)Do not lie in bed,cuddling underneath your blankets and listening to depressing songs.You are making it worse
10) And lastly,delete his bloody number.And make sure you don't memorise his number

If you have resolved to completely forget about him and move on,please stick with.No excuses.Hope these great tips help someone reading this?

"Copied but pasted in my own words"

18 comments:

  1. Thanks toun and pls listen to talyor swift song"white horse".

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  2. this would av bn useful 3,4,5 yrs ago.one particular guy almost ruined my entire world.my life was centered round him.he got someone else preggy and my world came crashing like a pack of laid cards.i'm happily married now.ive finally gotten over him.
    nice write Detoun.

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  3. Yummy mummy Ma own X , relationship of (5) five years , relationship Doyin built with everything she s got , wat happened??? He DAnny was sleeping with his only sister, D gal tormented my life saying moi was not good enough for her brother ,not knwing dey were *fuckingeachoda* for crying out loud ur Sister, ok, God saw ma struggles N Exposed them to me , I grieved it was Bad, I tot l lld. Die from d pain, eventually God gave me dis sweet Angel ma Superman (even dou ma finger don turn keyholder finish) Am happy. I totally Agree wit ur Tips Toun I used most of them n Yea it Worked. Okbye .

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    1. Sleeping with his sister keh?Was he cursed?

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    2. O Yes after d whole Gobe, his best friend told me its been on for like 8 years at d time. Dunno is if his cursed.

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    3. whaaaat?incest?u shld thank ur God sef dat it didn't work out.i know wat I went thru for yrs.suicide was on my mind sef if not for God.

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    4. INCEST! Bloody ell!!
      Thank God you got out of that bondage!

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  4. Ur tips r d bomb & dey work esp. 2 & 10 *winks*......."Ladies;plzzzzzzzz no guy is worth ur tears excpt ur husband*...CIAO

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  5. This came at the right time, I'm so heart broken, don't know what to do *sobs* without any explaination, he just cut me off. God help me

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    1. do u know wat,find dat inner strength in urself and pls I beg u,cut him off too.If he feels d need to cut u off from his lyfe why cant u do d same?make sue u follow number 10 wella.delete d bastard.no one is worth ur tears.

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    2. @anon, u will find d@ strength..it is well..try these steps, I'm sure they will work..
      Be careful, cos I know there is another girl,but pls don't fight...Don't ever fight over a guy,except u are punching d fool(girl) with ur wedding ring.

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    3. @Anon ... Please be strong!
      Whatever and whoever is meant for you will not pass you by.
      One Love xx

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  6. When something bad happens, you have 3 choices: You can either let it define you, destroy you, or let it strengthen u
    Like seriously , all my life I've lived like I've got no tym 2 impress or pamper any1,u giv me attitude I drop u lik bad habit,am nt d best but am sum1's favourite. no tym for national nonsense...infact,I don't KID except there is a NAP after it..."KIDNAP"..
    But come to think of it, D worst breakup a lady can get is thru a gateman..u jst hear d gate talk "Oga say make I no open gate for u again""..

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    1. ROTFLMBO @Oga say make I no open gate for u again""..

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    2. @Xstardess .. Classic Last Statement! LMAO!!

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  7. Great tips Toun!

    Some are easier said than done depending on how close and how much love you both shared with each other and the years spent together!!

    One day at a time is what I would say and Ladies do not "eliminate" your friends because you have found/met a man who you think rocks your world!

    Boyfriends will come and go but Friends will always remain the same,well some friends!

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